I just found out i have herpes type 1. I have a sore on my lip. I'm REAL confused as to how i got it because i have never kissed anyone with a visible sore, nor have i gone down on anyone with a sore. I have been using zovirax and its helping a little bit. Is there anything else i can use? before i knew what it was i had kissed my baby brother on his neck a few days ago so now im worried i gave it to him. I have a few questions though. Could i have gotten it from sharing lipstick or a straw? Also, how often will i see outbreaks and is it safe to go down on my bf when i dont have a sore? Can i kiss my bf after my sore is gone? Before i knew what it was i touched it with my finger, will i be getting sores on my fingertip now? This is really stressing me out and im trying to find a way to cope with it and i just keep reminding myself that it could be worse. It sucks cuz everyone keeps asking what i got on my lip and its really bringin me down. Any input would be greatly appreciated.