god bless ur heart..mom... i know its hard i have fought meds after meds after meds for over 5 yrs with my gurl she is 13 and as of july 31st i had to comite her to a pyc hosiptal was hardest thing i ever had to do but all that would happen here was meds would be changed and help for 6 months then wouldnt.. then the last 3 months went really bad... she was takin out of reg middle school in march and sent to a day treatment center cause she threatened to kill 4 school officials.. her meds was out of wack again she isnt a violent klid if shes got meds right but like i was sayin last past 3 month we changed her meds 3 times..nogood at all..still abusive to em and othes aggrisive.. so i had to commit her.. as soon as i did they took her off the adderall xr and ridlin and upped her risperdal to 4mg.. so now with risperdal 4mg and strattera 60 mg and tenex 1 mg.. she seems to be doin alot better.. she has adhd and o.d.d, and maybe manic but not really sure.. so shes been in this hosiptal for 2 weeks and its helped alot that i have seen just on calls to them and visits... maybe that might be what u need to do its hardest thing to do but for ur own good as well as his.. see bout gettin him admitted into a phyc hosiptal. research ones on net for around u and talk with his doctor... it has did wonder for my gurl and after 2 weeks .. shes gettin to maybe come home the 15th..and doin better.. i am sorry the other 2 dieses he has i have no clue about... and i feel him starting high school like this might lead to alot of fights and stuff ur not gonna wanna deal with.. i say best is to maybe check into having him admitted into a phyc facility... thats what i had to do and was a really good choice they will not let them go untill they r stable on their emds and with them selves.. well i wish u all the best and ur son also.. i know its hard but sometimes tough luv is the answer... god bless u....davina33