[COLOR="Navy"]Try giving her Miralax. It is an OTC med that will really help your grandmother. I use it because of the meds I take for my back. It will help with her stools being softer, AND it will help with the "urge" that goes along with them coming out. IT should make it easier for your grandma to have the bm without the need for her to have her hands in there.

good luck.,

you can find it at target, wal mart costco.....