Well, I have always had a very high libedo, and after he started taking AD's he had none! It has really been hard for me to deal with. When I was a lot heavier (20) I always thought it was that he didn't think I was attractive, even though I was that weight when we met. But I couldn't understand - he would always say "I've just got so much on mind". I would cry because he didn't want sex, and I even got a complex that no one would ever find me attractive either. I got my tubes tied and got off the pill and started losing weight. It didn't change anything with him, but other guys started noticing me and finding me attractive and sexy, and that did wonders for my self esteem. Even though we don't have sex that often, it is good, I can say that much, and I am proud of my body so I do feel sexy, and he thinks I'm beautiful, so that helps too. I just wish we could have spontaneous sex, but he has to take Levitra to overcome his SSRI sexual side affects and I am now cutting down on my Lexapro on the weekends so I can enjoy it - so no spontaneous sex for us! I hate that! But, I started giving him the Ginko this week, so I am hoping that it helps him too. That would be a miracle if it did. I can always hope though!

I hope the Lex gives you the confidence to start venturing out to take your children places so you can have fun. It's not fun to have to depend on someone else to take you places.