My husband was diagnosed with lung cnacer almost one year ago. He had surgery, 1/2 one lung removed. Then the cancer was back and he has since had radiation -- did well with that, but is now having chemo -- cisplatin with gimcitobine infusions and iressa orally. He has become quite ill, can't stay awake, had infections, was in the hospital. I'm just scared and I don't know how to help him. He means well, but he does not accept help well and he needs it now. Any suggestions about how to offer him help without insulting his self integrity.