HI: saw your topic and just had to write--more than likely your memory loss is due to being pregnant--I forgot things and left objects behind often..thankfully your memory returns after the baby.
I, to have adult add-non hyper type--I take Adderall and its changed my life--I can think clearly, go shopping for hours without being frustrated quickly and suffer from much less stress. Suggest you visit a library do as much reading as possible and thru drugs and learning new ways to manage tasks in your life, I bet you'll be fine.